The only love that won’t disappoint you is one that can’t change, that can’t be lost, that is not based on the ups and downs of life or of how well you live. It is something that not even death can take away from you. God’s love is the only thing like that.
—Timothy Keller (via kissthewave)
In a relationship, your identity should not be in the bargain. The moment you find that you’re making decisions based on your man’s preferences and interests is the moment you need to take a step back. Have some me time. Imagine you’re single and ask yourself if you’d come to the same conclusions on things. If not, try to really figure out what your goals and dreams are without your partner in the picture. He might have a fear of heights while you’re an adrenaline junkie — but that’s okay.
Sometimes, we don’t realise that we are the ones being too hard on ourselves. We forget that we’re human. We lose ourselves in the process of life. I had to take a moment. I had to just take some alone time. Forget everything. Breathe. Refresh my mind.
graduated high school
smoked a cigarette.
ridden every ride at an amusement park.
collected something really stupid.
watched four movies in one night.
gone long periods of time without sleep. lied to someone.
failed a class.
been in a car accident.
been in a tornado.
done hard drugs.
watched someone die.
been to a funeral.
run a marathon.
cried yourself to sleep. spent over $200 in one day. flown on a plane.
written a 10 page letter.
lost someone you love had a best friend.
been to jail.
dangerously close to being in jail.
skipped school. got in trouble for something you didn’t do.
stolen books from the library.
gone to a different country.
dropped out of school.
been in a mental hospital.
watched all of the “harry potter” movies. had an online diary.
fired a gun.
gambled in a casino.
had a yard sale.
had a lemonade stand
actually made money at the lemonade stand
been in a school play.
taken a lie detector test.
swam with dolphins.
gone to sea world.
voted for someone on a reality tv show. written poetry.
read more than 20 books a yeargone to sea world.
gone to europe.
used a coloring book over age 12.
had surgery.(for braces!)
taken a taxi.
seen the washington monument.
had more than 5 im’s/online conversations going at once.
had a drug or alcohol problem.
been in a fist fight.
suffered any form of abuse.
had a hamster.
pet a wild animal.
used a credit card.
gone surfing in california.
done “spirit day” at school.
dyed your hair.
gotten a tattoo.
had something pierced. gotten straight a’s.
been on the honor roll.
known someone with hiv or aids.
taken pictures with a webcam. started a fire
gotten caught having/going to a party while parents were gone.
then what we think. Life has no limits.